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November 3, 2007, 9:44 pm PDT
what crime????
Quote From: trollhappyI believe that the father should have continued the relationship with the daughter. Nothing should have changed. How could he love her one day and not the next. I do have a problem with a man paying child support for a child that isn't his. But my biggest problem with this whole show was that there was no mention of the biological father. This child deserves the right to know her biological father and the father deserves the right to have a relationship with his daughter. The have both been deprived. As far as I am concerned this woman has committed the crime of child abuse and child neglect. She deceived everyone.
My husband and I just found out he has a 14 year old son. When he was dating his x-girlfriend he made it perfectly clear that he didn't want anymore children. He also made that perfectly clear to me when we met. He already had a son that was 7 when I met him and he had a crazy x-wife to deal with. He and his girlfriend broke up and he never saw her again. Now 14 years later she has served him with child support papers and brought the child to our house unannounced to introduce him to his father. We just had a DNA test done this week but looking at him he probably is his son. I can not believe this woman thought she could raise this child and he would never care about who his daddy was. She too committed a crime!! What crime you talking of.... I agree with you rversion/comment on phil story but as for you adn your husband's situation, He was the one that even you claim made it VERY clear that He didnt want anythin gto do with more kids' and though I myself would have told him had I been in ex girlfriend shoes to see if he changed his mind or not,...she dont owe that to him, she only did what she felt was best for her son, given the opinion of th efather then apparently made sure the son knew truth of his father and let the son decide what his wishes were and apparently helped the son locate the father.
I had similar situation except my fiance knew I was pregnant and made me choose him or the baby, I chose the baby yet tried at least 3 times a year to get him to accept his son and it wasnt till my son turned 12 yrs. old and said it wasnt fair that I wouldnt make his father whom had money help financially at least so things were not so tuff on all us, I was paying expensive dental care,....but to me it was worth it and I didnt want to bother his father again, though th edoor was open to him to do as he wished,.......
My son wanted to get child support though his father claimed he made less than he did and got away with it, we all know truth and my son is grown now and a soldier, his father is very much loved by him though the father is too selfish to return equal love/concern,--I didnt need DNA but it was done at 99.999% he was/is father--he didnt need it either just wanted to prolong everything....I kept my promise to never go after support myself but, my son's wishes/desires over-rode that promise and I dont care how that makes the father or anyone else feel my kids always come first with me and MEN that claim to not want children should wear protection or get fixed permanately and not leave it all up to woman cause even though doctor s told me it was impossibility for me to get pregnant again, I have a wonderful son and another after him to prove GOD makes impossible Possible soemtimes------You should blame your husband for having such an jackass opinion of never wanting kids then NOT having made certain for himself instead he took the easy way out and left the women with all th eresponsibility of everything.
My ex. fiance told me he was sterile,..he lied cause he produced another child with another woman a year after our son was concieved and then just laughed about it, I had/have medical legal documents to say it was medically impossible for me to concieve.
I cant stand it when MEN dont want kids and then dont get fixed to make sure and blame it all on the women--that is just as bad as women that lie about whom father is and/or use th echild to get what they want.
No crime was committed either except unless you want to say morally and then the blame goes on both biological parents....the best thin gto do now is to not worry about why and who to blame and just move positively forward as this is a blessing regardless of circumstances cause there is a child/young man that can bring lots of joy if, adults are willing to nurture and accept..
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