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November 8, 2007, 3:18 pm PST

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It strikes me that all of the people in this group are power happy and are only concerned with being on top. Besting each other is not an intelligent thing to do. They most likely all deserve each other.

My family was not totally happy with my getting married at only 21, but we are still at it after 43 years and horrendious medical problems and it is not over yet.  These people need a life. If Dr. Phil helps their relationship I still have to wonder as to how the children will turn out 25 years from now.

I'm in complete shock over Dr. Phil's handling of today's show. Every time the bride tried to speak, the future Mother in law interrupted, and Dr Phil didn't tell her this isn't his first rodeo and she needs to let the bride finish a sentence???I don't think the girl got one full sentence in the whole hour!  I couldn't believe it!!!  I'm married 25 years and have a terrific mother in law. Not sure how I could have survived with one like shown today. Not saying the bride is blameless, she'll regret this at some point, but you know what????? It's HER day, not her mother in laws. Seems like she just can't grasp the idea that her son is moving on to the next phase of his life, and he's not going to need Mom as before. Sad, sad situation, but I think Mother in law needs to bite her tongue, paste a smile on her face and start being nice to her future daughter in law, even if it kills her. She can't demand respect, has to earn it!!!
 
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November 8, 2007, 3:21 pm PST

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It strikes me that all of the people in this group are power happy and are only concerned with being on top. Besting each other is not an intelligent thing to do. They most likely all deserve each other.

My family was not totally happy with my getting married at only 21, but we are still at it after 43 years and horrendious medical problems and it is not over yet.  These people need a life. If Dr. Phil helps their relationship I still have to wonder as to how the children will turn out 25 years from now.

BOTH THE BRIDE AND THE MOTHER HAVE TO LEARN.......THE ONLY ONE THAT YOU ARE ABLE TO CHANGE IS YOURSELF........STOP STOP TRYING TO CHANGE THEOTHER ONE AND CHANGE YOURSELF ......PLEASE IN THE NAME OF DR PHIL.....hehehehehheheee
 
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November 9, 2007, 7:41 am PST

Banned from the wedding

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It strikes me that all of the people in this group are power happy and are only concerned with being on top. Besting each other is not an intelligent thing to do. They most likely all deserve each other.

My family was not totally happy with my getting married at only 21, but we are still at it after 43 years and horrendious medical problems and it is not over yet.  These people need a life. If Dr. Phil helps their relationship I still have to wonder as to how the children will turn out 25 years from now.

I cannot believe Jay would do this to his mom,  Beauty is only skin deep jay! From what I saw on Dr Phil, yeah his mom was upset and acted angry, but what mom wouldn't. This situation is so sad, It was  obvious to me that Michele is vendictive and has only one thing on her mind "I will win"! Making her future husband choose between her and his mother is so selfish. Hopefully Jay wakes up before the 'I do's" actually take place if they haven't already,  My thoughts and prayers are with Jays mom, be patient she will either end up treating him like she has you , by watching her this is not her first time being evil , I think its her profession, or he will wake up one day and wonder why he ever allowed this to happen. Not everyone one in life gets along perfect, but you have to choose your battles , espically when it comes to your family, let it go michele. is it so hard to just try to get along?? Some of the things you said and did on your my page web site you should be so embarresed , its probably time you stop putting all your business out there where everone can read it. you are doing that as another , gotcha Jays mom...
 
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May 31, 2008, 9:39 am PDT

Keep reading your Bible

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It strikes me that all of the people in this group are power happy and are only concerned with being on top. Besting each other is not an intelligent thing to do. They most likely all deserve each other.

My family was not totally happy with my getting married at only 21, but we are still at it after 43 years and horrendious medical problems and it is not over yet.  These people need a life. If Dr. Phil helps their relationship I still have to wonder as to how the children will turn out 25 years from now.

So many people, mostly parents, are quoting the bible regarding the Ten Commandments. I just wish people would read the entire bible before they start quoting it. It really worries me that no one seems to remember that the Bible also says, a man and woman should (if need arises) forsake their parents and cling to one another.

 

Of course overbearing parents do not like that particular verse!! With the help of God we are free to pick our own mates to live with until death do us part. It doesn't say until MOM do us part. A man that is a man will stand up for his wife in all circumstances. If at the time he doesn't agree, which is normal, wait until the two of you are alone and then discuss the matter calmly.

 
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June 2, 2008, 10:20 pm PDT

I have been banned also

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It strikes me that all of the people in this group are power happy and are only concerned with being on top. Besting each other is not an intelligent thing to do. They most likely all deserve each other.

My family was not totally happy with my getting married at only 21, but we are still at it after 43 years and horrendious medical problems and it is not over yet.  These people need a life. If Dr. Phil helps their relationship I still have to wonder as to how the children will turn out 25 years from now.

Hi,

 

My daughter is getting married June 22 and the family in Co where my daughter is living they banned me because I dont follow the true word of God and have been divorced and they have not the mom and dad of the kid my daughter is marrying. I feel sick from it. so I know how she is feeling. It is terrible to raise a child and they oust you. my new husband and I have done nothing to deserve this . They found in the bible that it says not to divorce and they seem to think that we are going to hell and they are not so now we can not go to the wedding I trusted these people

 


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