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I HAVE BEEN DIVORCED SINCE MAY AND WAS MARRIED FOR 6TS. WE KNW EACHOTHER FOR 10. 9 YEARS AGO I FOUND THAT HE HAD A BIG ADDICTION TO "PLAYBOY".  WHEN I FOUND OUT, I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE GOT RID OF THEM. FOR MANY YEARS AFTER THAT, I LOST MY TRUST AND FELT INSECURE AND JEALOUS. WE FOUGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING. IN THE LAST 2 YEARS HE DEVELOPED IMPOTENCE AND HAS HAD NO SEXUAL DESIRES. I ACCEPTED IT DURING OUR MARRIAGE TOGETHER AND REMAINED FAITHFUL. WE ARE JUST APART OVER A MONTH BECAUSE WE STAYED TOGETHER UNTIL WE SOLD OUR HOME. I FOUND OUT LAST WEEK HE RAN OUT TO BUY "FHM MAGAZINE" AND "STUFF". I CONFRONTED HIM WITH IT AND WANTED TO KNOW IF HE HAS NO DESIRE OR DRIVE WHY HE WOULD PURCHASE THIS. HIS REPLY TO ME WAS" THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH LOOKING". I HAD CONSIDERED THAT MAYBE SOMEDAY WE WOULD GET BACK TOGETHER IF WE COULD WORK ON SOME OF THE ISSUES BUT RIGHT NOW, I DON'T KNOW IF IT IS SOMETHING THAT WILL EVER CHANGE. HE HAS NEVER BEEN UNFAITHFUL TO ME. THE OTHER PROBLEM IS HE CAN'T BE CONFRONTED ABOUT ANYTHING AND WON'T COMMUNICATE. I DON'T KNOW WHY I AM HANGING ON TO A MARRIAGE THAT OFFERS NOTHING. EVERYTIME I TELL HIM I DONT THINK WE SHOULD SEE EACHOTHER AGAIN, HE CALLS ME UP LIKE NOTHING. WE HAVE NOT BROKEN THE TIES AND SPEND EVERYDAY TOGETHER. SHOULD ONE OF US BE STRONG TO DO THIS? I DON'T KNOW WHY HE IS HANGING ON. HE CAN'T HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO.