Quote From: susielriesyou never give up...this girl is delusional and somehow he has said the ''magic words''. some people just have power and know how to use it. she will regret this forever. if she hasn't married him yet, he has no respect for her, as no muslim man would. if she has married him , she is basically trapped and when she has children and decides this life is wrong, she will never get them out of there and if she DOES, she will have to hide for the rest of her life. i lived in france years ago and many french women married muslims and when the man decided to go back to his country, he took their kids and it took years of legal work to get even visitation rights. HA. it is a nightmare.
SHE IS 18(if not older now)!
I understand a mother will NEVER give up(as I am a mother myself), but lets face the facts she an ADULT and 18 now!
She will make mistakes (we ALL do) ! But this is something she must learn on her own! We can on give advice that is all!
Rather if she married the wrong man or not the future isnt written yet! Her mom needs to "cut the cord" if she is 18 and over. She needs to learn and live on her own. Good or bad will happen to her, life isnt a fairy tale like some seem to think, and some learn faster and harder then others.
When I was her age at 18, I wanted to travel and see the world. Plans changed, and had to grow up in my own way. If she needs her mom Im sure she will ask for help.
Im NOT saying that it is right for the men to treat their women like that( as I am against it), she will learn either easy or the hard way.
