I think she is a spoiled brat, who has always had her way, and was determined not to be denied in pursuit of a relationship with Abdullah. So why should she be bailed out a second time, after the fairytale has run its course. If terrorists are watching this situation, they have just discovered a gold mine, in the youth of America. Forget infiltration of our borders, they can just go to My Space, and have their of pick of self-centered , self delusional young people. Neither, Abdullah or the girl, should be allowed into this country, endangering the lives of the citizens of this country.
It upsets me, when parents, who seem to equate love with material things, see that things don't matter in the end. The children of these households appear so shallow, and it would appear to me that the girls' mother needs more counseling than the daughter.