I think she should get out as soon as possible. My second husband was just like him and I lived in fear for six years. I finally had to lie and con my way out. I was stillscared for the longest time until one night the safty of our son was threatened I forgot my fear and went after him and forced him out the door. Boy this brings back some pretty nasty memories. This can't end well if she stays. I would type more but my computer is gving me a hard time.
I'm so glad you were able to get out...We gals must be more careful of who we let into our
hearts and my goodness, why on earth do women let fiance's and boyfriend around our families/children before we know everything we can find out about them?