Quote From: ls_phillyI've caught my husband with prostitutes. He says he's not doing this anymore, but something is telling me differently. He can't "perform" for "medical" reasons, yet I find porn hidden all over the place. I don't know how to catch him and I probably just don't have the energy because I don't want to know. He swears he's doing nothing and that there's nothing wrong with me, yet he rarely comes near me. Believe me...I take good care of myself and have had numerous offers to stray....it's just not something I can do. I think he has the same type of addiction....what are the signs??? I don't think he's having an affair, just running around for quick satisfaction.....(still NO excuse).
You already know the signs...you are seeing them.
You have two choices at this point: either you can ignore your husband's behavior and risk putting your own health at risk (STDs, AIDS....the "gifts" that keep on giving).....OR, you can rustle up some dignity and get the hell out while you can, and work on making your life better. No one will do it for you.
Every day you waste on this abusive relationship is one less day you have to make a REAL life for yourself.
Think about that.
