I have to say, although I am VERY sorry for you having to go through the pain of being with a guy that sucks, I am really disappointed that there are still women out there that actually believe that just because some (maybe even a lot of) guys are NOT honest, kind, and loyal; then that means that ALL guys will not be honest, kind, and loyal.
I would be especially disappointed if the women that are so quick to assume that every single male on earth will have the same bad traits, have also met women who are dishonest, mean, or another unfavorable trait, and didn't assume that all women on earth were like that.
See, amazingly, there ARE nice guys out there!
My boyfriend and I are about to celebrate our third anniversary as a couple.
He never speaks to me in a bad manner, the only porn he sees is the porn videos we got for ourselves to play when we have sex, he doesn't cheat on me (and trust me, I know) he never pressured me for sex in the begining, I had to start seducing him! He was so nervous and sweet about it.
He has respect for women. Part of it might be the times when he was young and he saw his mom hurl guys across the room... it let him know that women are strong.
He has lied a few times about not very important things, but I can always tell. He' s always so guilty. ^.^
He is sensitive to my feelings and will be loving to me, and he can be a dignified, respectful manly man.
Him and all of his friends are not as obsessed with sex as some guys. They don't bring up sex a lot. They'll be intimate with their girlfriends, of course, but they won't sit there and talk about things like, "oh, she's hot, yeah,I'd do her" like you might hear some guys say.
Well, actually, they will. But it's because they're NOT like that, and they're mocking guys who do.
I know guys like these are rare, but they are out there.
