Replies to '06/24 Banned from the Wedding, Part 2'

That may be true, but it doesn't give her the right to be so nasty! Whatever happened to respect your elders?! I have had disagreements with my MIL, but would never resort to calling her names, etc. Just because the MIL behaves poorly, doesn't mean the DIL should too!! She has the opportunity to rise above it all, but choses to stoop to the MILs level!!

Triplets! Oh My Oh My!

Hello, I just want to respond to the show about the Bride Banned her mother in law from her son wedding..I think that is ot right out how things took place on D. Phil show the bride did all te talking and the groom did nothing or barley said anything..He let his bride do all the talking and DISRESPECT his only mother..

The Man need to talk to his new bride and let her know this i the only mother  i  have and need to get alone with her..Same thing goes for the mother get alone with the bride 

You know, watching both shows and knowing these two, Jay and Michelle  WILL be divorced in 3 years time I feel no Sympathy for Michelle in any way.

She is selfish childish and very ignorant. her assumption that Jane is the only person who needs to work on herself  just shows that she was not and is not ready for marriage.

Michelles mother needs to take another look at the way she raised Michelle because it is VERY PLAIN to see that Michelle got and gets what ever she wants when she wants it and throws temper tantrums when she doesn't  get her way.

As for Jay get a backbone, you have blamed your mother for everything and have not taken a look at your childwife or yourself, and instead of owning up to anything you have done, or your childwife for that matter you hide behind anonymity claiming it has to do with your job.

You have been Lying about sooo much and the only reason you HIDE is because you are ASHAMED of yours and your childwifes behaviour. Once you're divorced in 3 years hopefully your mother will be more forgiving than you are.

Remember this, what goes around comes around, and don't think for one minute your children won't do this to you.....especially when they find out what you and Michelle have done to your mother.

Women will come and go your mother is the ONLY CONSTANT woman in your life and her love is unconditional unlike Michelles ( as you will see in a couple of years).

There is a couple of things they need to remember. 

#1 Family is family.  His mother/her son will always be family.  I am not saying that the marriage will not last but either way the blood will still be there.  Give mom a chance.

#2 There are so many children, me included, that would love to have the opportunity to work things out with their mom.  I lost my mom when I was very little, and I don't have the chance to even talk with my mom.  Work it out!!!!

I also think that the daughter- in -law needs to let the other two work it out and stay out of things.  After they work it out, then she can get in there and work it out.

I have a M-I-L just like hers.  It's amazing how similar.  We went through family counseling and she apologized AGAIN but never owned up to what she had done. She played the victim. She had yetto change her ways.  She NEVER would own up to the things she had said or done.  She would say and do things to me when my husband wasn't around in hopes of breaking us apart. She made it look like all of our differences were my fault until my husband caught her in the act of telling me mean and vindictive stuff when she didn't know he was listening.  He was shocked because he never believed me when I told him the things she would do or say because he thought his mother wasn't capable of such horrible acts. She has since tried unsuccessfully to have my children taken away from me because she can't stand the fact that my husband, (her only son) won't take her side. 

I feel very bad for the bride and groom because her M-I-L seems to be saying only what she has to say to make herself feel better.  I bet after the show she'll go back to her old ways. Mine did.