Quote From: applesI just read some of the message boards for overweight children. It worries me that people can be so oblivious to children when it comes to obesity. For the people who wrote and said that these children need to stop eating please be aware this my not be the problem. If they do not have a child who is overweight how can they make such wrong accusations? My 9 year old son is overweight, we had extensive blood work done, stool samples as well as an ultra sound but there is nothing medically wrong with him. We also put him on a very strict diet with the help of a fitness trainer for 6 months with no results. It bothers me when people say the parent should be responsible if the child dies, the parent may have done everything they can like I did. It is hard enough to comfort an overweight child when he is teased at school let alone the comments that come from what is supposed to be grown mature adults. I ask that people who may not have experience with an overweight child to please put themselves in our shoes. I have taught my son to accept who he is and to learn from other peoples mistakes. If anyone has anymore ideas as to what I can do please let me know. Even his doctor and pediatrician are stumped as to what is wrong.
I believe you and wish you all the luck in your quest. It is all about health and if your son is healthy then so be it and that should be good enough. We all have had to deal with individual turmoils in school. School is for learning and growing to become a good citizen and person in the world and that is the best focus. You are obviously on the right track. I wish I could say the same for my family as that is not the reason. The reason is bad habit gone awry, laziness and denial. This hurts more than just the people directly involved as we, the family, are a community in reality. I wish you the best.