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November 25, 2007, 12:40 pm PST

heading for divorce

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I don't understand why you keep dragging these people on the show.  If my son thought I was too much trouble I would just say "fine, just don't come running to me when you need something."   Men will do anything for a woman until he marries her and lives with her a little while.  The Mother should just back off and I can almost guarantee he will be divorced from her in record time.  And it won't be long before they will want something and that is just too bad.  I have 2 sons, one in a similar situation except that I just totally stay out of it.  It kills me to see him used like he is, but he is an adult and he has to learn for himself.  I mean where do these people come from.  I'm from Oklahoma and everyone thinks we are all a bunch of hicks.  Obviously they are everywhere.

 

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I totally agree with the comments above. I keep thinking Dr Phil just needs to pull that mother in law aside and tell her to keep her mouth shut. The son will see through his new wife soon enough and will realize what a big 'B' she really is. Then comes the divorce. If mom just kept her mouth shut, he will not feel like mom was right. Then mom can the hero after all by telling him "Sorry it didn't work out. I'll be here for you no matter what.

Mom- just walk away and let it be. There is no way your son will be able to stay married to that woman for long. 

There is something very telling when his whole family is against this union!
 
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November 27, 2007, 3:14 pm PST

Son needs a backbone

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I don't understand why you keep dragging these people on the show.  If my son thought I was too much trouble I would just say "fine, just don't come running to me when you need something."   Men will do anything for a woman until he marries her and lives with her a little while.  The Mother should just back off and I can almost guarantee he will be divorced from her in record time.  And it won't be long before they will want something and that is just too bad.  I have 2 sons, one in a similar situation except that I just totally stay out of it.  It kills me to see him used like he is, but he is an adult and he has to learn for himself.  I mean where do these people come from.  I'm from Oklahoma and everyone thinks we are all a bunch of hicks.  Obviously they are everywhere.

 

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This man needed to stand up and tell his bride that his mother will be at his wedding or no wedding.  I don't care what she has done.  She loved him and raised him and I'll bet she gave him a good education.  I hope he knows that no matter how they fix this (if they ever can)  she will be hurt for the rest of her life that she was not invited to her own sons wedding.  I hate to tell you this young man but your wife is not a very nice person and someday when you get tired of her wearing the pants you will realize that.  I would think long and hard before I have children with her.  Also, her mother should be ashamed of her.  Her and her mother really looked bad.  I would have told my daughter to invite the mother in law to the wedding.  The bride sounds like a real brat.  I this young lady reads all the comment people have written about her.  She comes off really bad.

As for the Mother in law I would just stay away and if they call me OK and if they don't that is OK too.  I would not beg my kids to love me when I know I did a very good job of raising the.  If they call be nice and that is it.  It will be your sons loss.
 
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November 27, 2007, 4:10 pm PST

Dr Phil

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I don't understand why you keep dragging these people on the show.  If my son thought I was too much trouble I would just say "fine, just don't come running to me when you need something."   Men will do anything for a woman until he marries her and lives with her a little while.  The Mother should just back off and I can almost guarantee he will be divorced from her in record time.  And it won't be long before they will want something and that is just too bad.  I have 2 sons, one in a similar situation except that I just totally stay out of it.  It kills me to see him used like he is, but he is an adult and he has to learn for himself.  I mean where do these people come from.  I'm from Oklahoma and everyone thinks we are all a bunch of hicks.  Obviously they are everywhere.

 

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Maybe if Dr Phil hadn't focused all of his time on the MIL, maybe everyone would be talking differently! Why did it take him till the end of the 2nd show to tell those kids how he felt! Maybe if he would have started the 2nd epsisode with how he ended it, there would've been less drama and repetitiveness and more constructive advice for everyone. That son needs to grow some and stand up to his new wifey!

 

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December 7, 2007, 5:54 am PST

R.E.S.P.E.C.T . IS SOMETHING WE EARN

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I don't understand why you keep dragging these people on the show.  If my son thought I was too much trouble I would just say "fine, just don't come running to me when you need something."   Men will do anything for a woman until he marries her and lives with her a little while.  The Mother should just back off and I can almost guarantee he will be divorced from her in record time.  And it won't be long before they will want something and that is just too bad.  I have 2 sons, one in a similar situation except that I just totally stay out of it.  It kills me to see him used like he is, but he is an adult and he has to learn for himself.  I mean where do these people come from.  I'm from Oklahoma and everyone thinks we are all a bunch of hicks.  Obviously they are everywhere.

 

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you know the sad part of this comment is the part where it says a man will do  ne thing for a woman till he marrys her , I am a daughter in law   my mother in law  and i dont always get along  (i see a pattern starting here because  she is an okie to !!!!)  an probably will never  , but i am not losing ne sleep over it  , everybody needs to  treat others  as  they would want to be treated  , and life would be  so much nicer . what i  would say in this  case   is  i think Mom is a little jealous   the bride has reacted  wrong to the MIL   but hey she is human  and i am  pretty sure   i would react the same way  , now that doesnt make it right   , But our first  response as humans is to defend our selves  and thats what we do  , now that still doesnt make  it right , but it is a fact   AND SOMETHING ELSE  R.E.S.P.E.C.T . IS SOMETHING  WE EARN 
 
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