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July 28, 2005, 7:08 pm PDT
Men are many times little boys afraid to admit, much less commit
Quote From: hayes_83i have been with this guy(that i am totally in love with) for over 2 years now. i have sacrificed a lot of things to be with him. hes a wonderful guy, trustworthy, loyal, just a good hearted man. now hes telling me that somethings missing and that its not working out. yet he tell me he loves me, i am his "bestfriend", and that he doesn't want to lose me. we live in oregon right now. if i end up leaving i have to go back to tennessee(my home town). i asked him how he felt about us never being together again. he told me something , that i interpreted as, he still wants to end up together. should i try to fix or change anything or should i move on? my heart is telling me that i want to fix it. i am just so confused. i feel as if he was playing mind games with me. i know this is a silly question, but i am just so confused. Men are many times little boys afraid to admit, much less commit! I will tell you my experience in life, when it comes to men telling a woman it is not working out, or something is missing. Probably 90% of the time the thing that is missing is his loyalty. I know you say he is a boyscout, but the lines that follow afterword's, yes I love you, you're my best friend, are things men sometimes say to help ease what they are really saying, and making themselves feel better, rather than admitting they are looking elsewhere. I am sure you are confused, and the main reason you are confused, in my humble opinion, is because everything he says doesn't add up, and with good reason. Loving someone and being hurt by them because they are not mature enough to be honest, is not being silly. I hope this helps. Good luck, and keep us posted
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