Quote From: thegirlfromoz
Hi firebomb,
I have d same situation with my dear hubby,and at this present moment he is giving me "the silence treatment" because he didnt get sex when he thought it was due to happen,same as yours!oh my god,i cant believe that men are actually like that,that EVERYTHING depends if they got sex today or not,and the thing is,they never ask for the reason that the SEX didnt happen ,maybe we really dont feel well,or too tired doin the things round the house makin it nice n tidy FOR THEM,working,taking care of kids,but they dont understand it.I know my husband would be ready for sex in d middle of d nite,sick or healthy,only if he is tired and fall asleep on couch,thats an exeption.
And now because he didnt get any sex,everything is going down,hes not listening to me to talk about the issue,he gives up everything,the whole world has stopped!
He is ,or already was on the phone to his parents sayin how Im bad wife n all,and they cant wait to hear somethin like that,coz they never liked me anyway,"their poor son,sufferin so much!
OH WHAT A BUNCH OF CRAP!
Im sorry,I didnt help you much with some advice or sugestion what to do,coz frankly I havent figured out yet how to tame a childish grownup person of my own,but at least u know u r not alone,coz I felt better reading ur msg,and knowing Im not the only one.
whish all the streangth u need to figure it out
thegirlfromoz
I think that both of you have a real problem but you have to deal with and the reason of this issue is, maybe in the first days, weeks or years, you gave him a bad habit is to have sex more than 2 times a week.
Now, you're so tired, you have kids, you have responsibilities, so you're so exhausted to have sex, but don't forget it's his right, and if you don't satisfy it, he may look for other girls and i'm sure that you don't want to get to that situation
So there are many solutions for this issue, he have to help you to take care of the kids and all that stuff if he wants to have sex, you have to involve him but you have to have the desire to do it, and if not you will feel that it's just like an obligation and it's the worse thing that i can't imagine.
take your time, make up your mind and think again, maybe you are able to have sex onece a week or once in 2 weeks, i think it's not so hard and it's just about love.
The most important thing is that you have to make him learn just one habit and it depends on your ability
