I would like to know if you have any children, and if so are they biological or adopted?
So many people, who have biological children of their own mind you, make ignorant comments and just say "Oh what's the big deal, if you can't procreate then why not adopt?...there are sooooo many children in need in this world who need a loving home".
Couples (especially women) that are going through infertility have just about heard it all... and minimizing their problem and trying to fix it with any easy solution is not fair to them. Adoption is just as emotionally draining and expensive.