Quote From: tabbydayHow dare you? You are about as clueless as Dr. Phil when it comes to this subject. You obviously don't think infertility is a disease and IT IS. One for which I personally have had to seek treament for. Many drugs, many surgeries and much, much heart break before conceiving my perfect little girl. Guess if I was dying of cancer, I shouldn't take those drugs either, God obviously meant for me to die. What an insensitive and horrible thing to say. Get a clue, you think adoption is cheap? You think there isn't just as much heartache wrapped up in those options too. You are not guaranteed a baby either way, especially in this country. Guess it shouldn't amaze me how hurtful fertile people can be to those who aren't.
I didn't mean to be hurtful. I didn't consider infertility as a disease before you bit my head off. Sorry, but I thought God does mean for people to die, hence giving them cancer, car crashes, etc. But I suppose you are right, just because a person has cancer doesn't mean they shouldn't try to live. I agree with that.
But as a side note, how many miscarriages/still borns did you have to have before one made it through? How many miscarriages should a person have before giving up? At what point is it not okay?