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December 7, 2007, 3:30 pm PST

WOW

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I find it disturbing that so many women are willing to go to such extreme measures to try to get pregnant.  If they can't then....take a hint!!  The world would be a much better place if all the money that was spent on fertility treatments was directed to a worthy cause.  And for you career women out there who decided to work until you were 40 and THEN decided to try to get pergnant...hey you missed your window.  Get over it.

Comments like that are so insensitive.  Take a hint?  You obviously don't have any empathy.  There are millions of people out there who would make great parents and the world would be a better place if they were parents but are unable to have kids and you say "Take a hint?"  I'm not just talking about the people in their 40's either.....You have obviously never wanted something  that you had to work for and you would do anything for.  There are many people out there who shouldn't have kids in way, shape, or form and you are telling people that would be great parents to "Take a hint".  You should be ashamed for such a comment that is so unfeeling.   I feel sorry for you. 

 
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December 8, 2007, 7:16 pm PST

You are an idiot

Quote From: sadeoliveira

I find it disturbing that so many women are willing to go to such extreme measures to try to get pregnant.  If they can't then....take a hint!!  The world would be a much better place if all the money that was spent on fertility treatments was directed to a worthy cause.  And for you career women out there who decided to work until you were 40 and THEN decided to try to get pergnant...hey you missed your window.  Get over it.

I can't believe you'd be willing to post such a shameful diplay of ignorance!  Are you seriously telling me that those that can have babies should and those that can't shouldn't?  Are you going to aruge that  all the "Brittany Spears" out there are better mothers than the well educated, highly motivated, women in a stable marriages suffering from infertility?  This is truly the most painfully retarded reply I've ever seen!  How would you suggest I focus my spending?  Should I throw money at pregnant teenagers with kids on welfare? Those that have to endure the unimaginable misery of infertility should never have to explain themselves.  And can you honestly tell me who's more worthy of having a child then someone who's had to endure the emotional and physical trauma of infertility?  You are clearly somone who has absolutely no knowledge about infertility and no business making any comments about this issue.
 


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