Quote From: yvonne0868Anita, please leave, you and your son deserve so much better. Go to the shelter, get help. I know what you mean about not wanting to bother anyone especially your parents, but honey, you need help, i didn't tell my family because i was scared that if he knew they knew he would kill them. My father underwent cancer treatment and when they could get over to Australia they came when i needed them. My father has had secondary cancer last year after 4 years being cleared but i reached out. I think if something happened to you, they would be more upset with that, please please, please, get help and get out.
You have support here and i bet a hundred friends who know where you are coming from, you are not alone.
Please Anita, get out. He is not worth it and you deserve so much better, both of you for your safety and your sons safety. He will be scarred with this, my children have suffered because i didn't leave sooner but everything will turn out better in the long run, even though it looks bleak and horrible.
Lots of love
Yvonne, NZ
Anita
Call 1-800-799-7233 National Domestic Violence HOtline and get referral's for Shelter's in your area or out of the area. If you do not have transporation then they can ususally arrange for transportation to the shelter meeting plan. I would suggestion not within 100 miles of your home due to his police friend my know where the shelter is then you will not be safe. Do not cross state lines if the child is his because he can file parental kidnapping charges on you. Go to shelterlet them help you get a protective order, file for permanet custody of your kid and start over. If you call some where for help always hang up pick your phone back up dial 1234 let it ring and then hang up that way he can not track your calls. Also be careful with your home computer they can track what you do clear you folders but be careful, also cell phones have track devices in them if he gave it to you do not take it with you , but delete all friends and other numbers out of it. He could have it bugged. Good Luck. Call NDVH for assistance.
Auburne
Austin, Texas
