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October 8, 2005, 9:51 am PDT
How Dare You and Shame On You!!!!
Quote From: mommy04HOW DARE YOU JUDGE A SINGLE MOTHER OF THREE WHEN YOU ARE NOT EVEN A PARENT YOURSELF NOR ARE YOU FEMALE! I AM A 22 YEAR OLD MOTHER OF FOUR. ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME I DID NOT TRY TO PREVENT MYSELF FROM HAVING CHILDREN. I GOT NEWS FOR YOU BUDDY.......... I WAS ON BIRTH CONTROL WITH THREE OF MY FOUR CHILDREN AND NO I DID NOT MISS A PILL NOR DID I MISS A SHOT. AND NO, I COULD NOT FIND A DOCTOR TO TIE MY TUBES BECAUSE I WAS "TO YOUNG". MOST STATES WILL NOT TIE YOUR TUBES UNTIL THE FORTH CHILD OR UNTIL YOU ARE 25. AND I AM A SINGLE MOM! I HAVE DONE IT ON MY OWN FOR 5 YEARS NOW AND I HAVE BEEN ON MY OWN PAYING MY OWN BILLS SINCE I WAS 14. I DO NOT RECIEVE CHILD SUPPORT FROM THE FATHER NOR DO I GET STATE ASSISTANCE. I THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE A BIG LOOK AND THINK WELL GEE IF THE FATHER IS NOT IN THE PICTURE THAT IS HIS OWN DAMN FAULT AND HE IS THE ONE THAT IS BEING SELFISH NOT HER. YOU SEEM TO FORGET THAT MOTHERS CAN'T PLAY THE "IT'S NOT MINE" CARD LIKE YOU MEN DO. AND IF YOU ARE GOING TO SAY IT WAS BECAUSE SHE SLEEPS AROUND TO MUCH OR DOES THIS OR THAT YOUR WRONG ABOUT THAT TOO. I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY CHILDRENS FATHER FOUR 7 YEARS ARE YOU GOING TO TELL ME THAT ME BEING A SINGLE MOM IS ALL MY FUALT AND I AM BEING SELFISH. YOU NEED TO GROW UP AND STOP THINKING LIKE A TYPICAL STUPID MAN! First off, since you know you get pregnant that easily, maybe abstinence until married. Ever thought of that? The whole issue here was control and discipline...obviously something you missed. I am a female registered OR nurse, and yes, we have tied tubes on people your age with two babies. You sound like you have some real pent-up anger about men, maybe from being left with three young children, but has marriage ever entered into the picture? You would then have the law on your side with child support and alimony if necessary. Get some counselling and don't blame your problems on the guy who wrote in. I agree with him totally!
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