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December 14, 2007, 1:52 pm PST
12/14 Is This Normal?
Quote From: accudataWatching the show was very interesting, as my husband is the same way. We have been married for almost 20 years have four children together. I recognized this before we were married, but put it to the back not listening to my intuition. He can be a wonderful person and I know he loves me, but he can't change unless they want to. Living with someone like that is like walking on egg shells. You are always waiting to "fall through". Not good for stress. It has made me physcially ill for 6 years (diagnosed with MS intially but had at least 10 other symptoms). I have just admitted to the problem over the past year and it is hard to unstuff it. all. He is still in denial and won't go for help. Have been to marriage counseling but still won't admit the problem. Will say that he is wrong but won't get help. Think hard before you act. It is much harder to get out of a situation when it is more long term. Truly listen to your gut and follow it-it won't let you down. It is there for a reason. My girls and I about hit the floor, we could have swore that this was my husband/their father. My husband gets so mad and swears when things are not done the way he thinks they should be, its to the point that he cant not control his self with our middle child anymore. He also gets mad when we go out to eat if things are not done just like he thinks etc. And here I thought they broke the mold with mine! I sure would not get married if I was her, just think of the kids and what he is teaching them I know I see it in my kids.
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