Quote From: lstingOf course each situation needs to be treated depending on circumstances, but I felt that the message that "kids first, money second" was not embraced by the majority. Although I do not respect the ex wife, it is clear to me that the new wife and the husband are totally void of compassion for our youth and acted cruely The husband is responsible for his actions, but I have no doubt that the new wife goaded him into the financial injustice of it all. Even though it was at the cost of a young girls emotionally well being. Shame on the husband, period. A man of intrigrity would have handled this legally and not started the process with the 13 year old, which has damaged her emotionally. I'm not buying that he understands the severity of his actions. He sure is hanging on to this bone still a little too tightly. He does not deserve to be her father. I wouldn't loose sleep on this one if he couldn't get out of paying the child support. Let him feel it where it obviously hurts him most; in his pocketbook. Shame on the husband and new wife. I find it all disgusting and an injustice all it's own.
Wow!!!!
That'sinsanity. A wife cheats, they get divored and he realizes one child isnot his biologically so he doesnt want to pay. Don't you think he was hurt? And he should not have to pay, he shoud continue the relationship that is his siblings sister. But the BIO DAD needs to be found she needsto know her bio famly and bio dad should pick up and pay current child support. I'm sure the husband was angry and hurt and no one is perfect in situations like that,I think that was totally abusiv e for him to think that was his bio daughter and have such a stab in the heart, I'msure he was angry and was thinkng about how to handle the situation. He loves her and I am sure will continue visits in time.
