Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

First, let me say I am a female and I totally side financially with the man on this one.  He should NOT be financially responsible for this child.  I would like to see him stay emotionally involved with her for as long as they both want it to be a part of their lives.

The mother ought to be very ashamed of herself for what she did.  The child and the "emotional father", both, deserved to know the truth...now, how that worked out, I do not feel was the best way.

The child deserves to know who her biological father is - and he needs to know he has a child out there.  Perhaps he would have stepped up to the plate in the beginning....??  He should also take up the financial support.

Bottom line...........You play - you pay!  Even if he didn't know about the child, he obviously had unprotected sex.  Too bad if this upsets his life now - it is a sad thing, but it happened.....and again, here is another man that Maria lied to by not telling him about the child. 

Good for Mia for bringing this to her husbands' attention.  I hope she will not stand in the way if her husband and his "emotional daughter" want to have a relationship.

Too many men walk away from child support when it is their children.........but I do not believe people should pay for children that are not theirs, either!

First, let me say I am a female and I totally side financially with the man on this one.  He should NOT be financially responsible for this child.  I would like to see him stay emotionally involved with her for as long as they both want it to be a part of their lives.

The mother ought to be very ashamed of herself for what she did.  The child and the "emotional father", both, deserved to know the truth...now, how that worked out, I do not feel was the best way.

The child deserves to know who her biological father is - and he needs to know he has a child out there.  Perhaps he would have stepped up to the plate in the beginning....??  He should also take up the financial support.

Bottom line...........You play - you pay!  Even if he didn't know about the child, he obviously had unprotected sex.  Too bad if this upsets his life now - it is a sad thing, but it happened.....and again, here is another man that Maria lied to by not telling him about the child. 

Good for Mia for bringing this to her husbands' attention.  I hope she will not stand in the way if her husband and his "emotional daughter" want to have a relationship.

Too many men walk away from child support when it is their children.........but I do not believe people should pay for children that are not theirs, either!