Quote From: tracy1242Child support is very expensive. My brother cannot afford a place like he used to have, but his wife can because of the child support. She keeps the kids, gets a nice place to live while he pays off all their debt and lives in a one bedroom apartment paying child support. The court doesn't even care if he can afford it.
Man all you folks that say you can just leave it alone, you can't. Do the math, that's a lot of child support money. If you invest that amount monthly you will retire nicely. Instead Maria is probably eating that amount in fast food or take out each month at Enrique's expense.
Just because a person gets child support doesn' t mean they need it or that they use it for the kids. She has a new man, he can help her with her bills, so she will have more money now for her household, Maria is just being greedy.
She needs to go see the man she screwed 13 years ago so he can see how sexy she is now and also let him know he made a baby and he needs to start paying for it. This other man might have wanted to have a relationship with the daughter he created, but again Maria took that into her own hands. I am sure the sperm donor will be shocked and sad too when he finds out.
The real victim here is the little girl. The non-biological dad, is perhaps not her father, but is the one she has learned to look up to for 13 years. See one does not have to be the one who planted the seed to be a dad. I am the dad of the Redhead in the pix with me although I never planted the seed.
I have supported her in every which way, and she knows I have been there for her, and will continue to be there for her. This man is no dad; he pretty much abandoned her emotionally and financially. If he had financial issues he should have taken it up quietly with the mom. But never cause the pain that he did to the young lady, as she did not deserve that.
