Replies to '01/07 Don't Be That Girl'

Sweetie, don't sell yourself so short.  If the dude is locked up, what real RIGHT future can he have.  O.K.  lets cut the brother a break, tell us what he is doing in there to improve his life when he comes out.  Some inmates earn college credits, others find and dedicate themselves to the lord.  What has this brother done good lately, and maybe that will give you your answer, if he is or is NOT Mr. Right. 

See to many girls settle for Mr. Almost Right, and again, some have such high expectations that they ahve no idea when Mr. Right is stearing them in the face.  So my advice, keep it real, and listen to your heart but validate yourchoice with your head.  Tall order I know, but a life is too short to spend it with someone who truly does not deserve you giving him the time of day.   If that is the case for this brother, that is.

No one in prison is Mr. Right.  Especially someone who makes you mad most of the time and who's taken you through hell.  He might become Mr. Right, but only if he does some work on himself.  And he needs to prove that he's learned how to be Mr. Right (staying out of prison, getting his life together, doing right).  That won't happen quickly - it will take a few years after he get out.  Until he has a new track record, don't invest in him, and don't put your life on hold for him.   Life your life and be open to other possibilities.