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January 6, 2008, 4:48 am PST
01/09 When to Call it Quits
Quote From: derevna33 Were they really, truly giving this marriage their all? That's a rheotorical question. You don't want to hear the answer. I believe that a marriage is a relationship, and when one party is giving their all--it still isn't enoug to make a better relationship. It too easily descends into "filling in the blanks."
Finding the deep roots of the problem will only postpone the inevitable.
I stayed in a bad marriage far longer than I should have. I tried to make it work. And, I tried. And, I tried. I had six excellent reasons to beome a divorcee. I stayed because I would try to do what was right--even when I knew it was hopeless. HOW MANY TIMES DOES A PERSON HAVE TO TRY!!!!!! ITS FAIR ENOUGH SAYING THAT YOU NEED TO GIVE IT YOUR ALL. BUT WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU CONTINUE GIVING YOUR ALL AND THEY JUST KEEP TAKING AND TAKING? MARRAIGE IS A TWO SIDED COMITTMENT NOT ONE SIDED. I HAVE GIVEN AND GIVEN FOR TWO YEARS NOW. I HAVE BEEN NICE AS PIE BUT HE JUST KEEPS DOING WHAT HE IS DOING AND TREATING ME LIKE DIRT. SO WHEN IS ENOUGH ENOUGH WHEN DO YOU STOP GIVING IT YOUR ALL AND CALL IT QUITS?
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