Replies to '01/07 Don't Be That Girl'

I go over to the he/she won't commit board often ( and it is a lot more "he won't commit " than "she"), and I see woman after woman afraid to leave some idiot that has been holding her up and giving her the song and dance for 4,5,6,7,8 years while her youth and life slip away.

Why can't we women say "I won't continue to see you unless you straighten up!"

THEN Dr. Phil can do a show for the poor lost men eager to change THEMSELVES so a woman will take THEM on.

Will that ever happen?  Or will women continue to beg and plead and "fix" themselves to hold onto some relationship while the man does whatever he wants.

I was at an internet dating service yesterday and one of my matches was a handsome ex soilder.  I GAVE HIM THE BOOT because his top priority was that his match not be overweight..   He is probably trying figure our how someone could turn him down.

It hurt to do this, believe me! The pickings are slim.  But it is better than being in a position where I have to try to change myself to get someone to like me.  Relationships are a two way street and no one is perfect.

I go over to the he/she won't commit board often ( and it is a lot more "he won't commit " than "she"), and I see woman after woman afraid to leave some idiot that has been holding her up and giving her the song and dance for 4,5,6,7,8 years while her youth and life slip away.

Why can't we women say "I won't continue to see you unless you straighten up!"

THEN Dr. Phil can do a show for the poor lost men eager to change THEMSELVES so a woman will take THEM on.

Will that ever happen?  Or will women continue to beg and plead and "fix" themselves to hold onto some relationship while the man does whatever he wants.

I was at an internet dating service yesterday and one of my matches was a handsome ex soilder.  I GAVE HIM THE BOOT because his top priority was that his match not be overweight..   He is probably trying figure our how someone could turn him down.

It hurt to do this, believe me! The pickings are slim.  But it is better than being in a position where I have to try to change myself to get someone to like me.  Relationships are a two way street and no one is perfect.