Quote From: tiglibudI agree...PARTLY...for me, with having multiple physical and mental disabilities. The list is huge and I'm rather tired, so i'll return on details later...just wished to "touch base"..well make having friends hard.
So many just find me "frustrating" or "difficult" ... I guess, not really sure, since they kind'a ditch me usually without explanation ...NOT NICE!
Anyhoo...wanted to just make sure ya know I'll come back to this tomorrow ...and give ya some idea of "me"...silly me, but yep...I totally get ya on wishing for "balanced friends"
Just quick...I have what is known as "Borderline Personality Disorder"...now, i'm bad enuff..can't imagine two of "us types" trying to live in the same house, YIKES!
Okay, must go to bed now, 1:30am...OOPSI, stayed up too late again! hehehe, oh well, I'm disabled, can't work...and have no kids or a man to take care of...SO NO WORRIES!
Post ya's Later....HUGS
You know that borderline personality disorder isn't an incurable disease, right?
I was diagnosed with it four years ago. I too, kept wondering why people were running out my life. I don't know how else to say this without sounding somewhat fridgid,but, it's the root of your problem, babydoll. Being diagnosed with a borderline personality disorder basically means that you've very unstable, are immature, and can't cope with life on life's terms. You're also litigious (you make it everyone else's fault)
It makes it hard for people to be around you, period. Now hold on sec, don't get too upset, yet. I was undiagnosed with borderline personality disorder about 2 years ago. My life is completely different. I look back and fail to recognize the person I was because I am very different today. The first thing I learned was not to openly advertise the diagnosis. Do you have a counsellor?
And please don't lean on your physical crutch, my sweet one. You're much too strong for that. And I'm not that stupid. So, are you seeking treatment for that curable disease?
