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January 17, 2008, 2:02 pm PST

Legal System

Quote From: leprachaunmom

Could you describe to America the legal system during a heated custody battle like this. To see KFed speeding along the other night is equally as bad. He could have stopped at a Fire Station for help. He seems equally as offensive as a parent who abuses pot and alcohol and god knows what else.

He just has Britney's money to pay for his attorney that is not helping the situation. Britney did the right thing to divorce this yahoo, but why did things get worse when she left KFed. It seems like a typical abusive relationship where KFed is retaliating and using these two poor children as missiles.

KFed has 3 other illegitimate kids, no education, no religion. Why doesn't a neutral Guardiam Ad Litem take both the kids until this passes. It doesn't seem any safer for the kids with KFED, especially after how he was driving last night.

My prediction is that KFED will resort to everything to see that Britney self destructs and then like Anna Nicole Smith these losers get the money-they don't care about the kids.


From where I am, the Legal System is for the protection of the children. There had to be more information presented to the judge than what the public knows in order for custody be placed with the father. I would hope that a Guardian Ad Litem has been appointed in order to fully investigate both parents. If the Guardian has been appointed, it does not mean that the children would be taken away from the father during the investigation. Guardian Ad Litem's do not take custody - they only investigate from an impartial standing.

I know this well because I am currently involved in a case where I took custody of my sister's daughter due to her alcoholism and mental instability. It has been the absolute worst thing I have ever been through in my life. My sister was, at first, out-of-her-mind angry but within a couple of days she understood. I tried so hard to work with her and help her but the situation became so twisted and violent.

DSS got involved and supported me. As time went on, my sister made my life, my family's, life and her own daughter's life a living nightmare. She had money and took us to court with false accusations that eventually wiped out all of our savings and has pretty much put us in bankruptcy.

A Guardian Ad Litem was appointed and we (my husband and I) were again supported but to get us out of the middle, we ended up having to give custody of my neice to DSS and we became her foster-parents.

Somehow, my sister has been able to convince a small army that SHE was the victim and now we are no longer in a battle but we are in a WAR. We fear for our safety and, especially, my niece's.

My neice has been in counseling the entire time. Since she has been at my home, horrible facts have emerged about her life behind closed doors with her mother. I feel like I am dying inside for not seeing and taking action sooner and I am dying inside because I have lost not just my sister - but my Identical Twin sister.

Back to the legal system - this fight never ends. Legally, the door will never be shut to the possibility that my neice, who is 10, could go back to her mother.

I got off track - sorry - just remember - it's what's in the child's best interest. I hope a Guardian Ad Litem is assigned and the father (KFED) is investigated THOROUGHLY too.
 


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