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October 9, 2005, 9:56 am PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

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i hope the women who do breast feed in public do have courtesy to cover up, i don't think they should have to go to the restroom in the restaurant or at the park , JUST COVER UP not all wants to see your boob flopping in the wind, for me I did not breast feed, but if I were to, with my second child, I will be discreet about it. And as far as it is our rights to breast feed in public , YES it is , but the whole restaurant , or kids in the park don't have to see it, these women say , "look the other way" Everybody gets offended by something, and I know it is a natural thing, but have respect for others and just cover up, I had to change my sons diaper in a booth, once at a restaurant, gee guess what no one knew what i was doing. Again Please respect others and just cover up some skin    

I agree with being discreet.  I actually practiced in front of a mirror so that I could breastfeed without showing anything.  I never once showed any more of my breast than what you would see if I were wearing a modest bathing suit.  And yet, for some people here, it sounds like that's still not enough.  The very fact that they *know* there is a baby suckling at the breast is enough to offend them.   

  

As stated previously by many other women who have actually *experienced* breastfeeding a baby, not all babies tolerate being covered by a blanket.  I don't know many adults who would want to eat their meals under a blanket, either.  I never used a blanket but was still able to be discreet -- but again, if people knew what I was doing, they were offended by the very thought of it.   

  

I have seen adults that belch at restaurants, have food hanging out their mouths, and are just plain disgusting -- but no one would tell them to go eat in the bathroom.  Because they're adults, and we value the rights of adults more than the rights of babies.  Sad. 

 
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October 9, 2005, 10:17 am PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

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i hope the women who do breast feed in public do have courtesy to cover up, i don't think they should have to go to the restroom in the restaurant or at the park , JUST COVER UP not all wants to see your boob flopping in the wind, for me I did not breast feed, but if I were to, with my second child, I will be discreet about it. And as far as it is our rights to breast feed in public , YES it is , but the whole restaurant , or kids in the park don't have to see it, these women say , "look the other way" Everybody gets offended by something, and I know it is a natural thing, but have respect for others and just cover up, I had to change my sons diaper in a booth, once at a restaurant, gee guess what no one knew what i was doing. Again Please respect others and just cover up some skin    

Well, changing your baby's diaper in a booth *is* disgusting.  The equivalent, though, wouldn't be bfing in a booth, but urinating in a booth.  It's unsanitary.  Human milk is quite sanitary, and a woman's breast is at *least* as sanitary as her hands, if not more so.   

 
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October 9, 2005, 12:11 pm PDT

less cover up, more shut up

Quote From: mommaof1

i hope the women who do breast feed in public do have courtesy to cover up, i don't think they should have to go to the restroom in the restaurant or at the park , JUST COVER UP not all wants to see your boob flopping in the wind, for me I did not breast feed, but if I were to, with my second child, I will be discreet about it. And as far as it is our rights to breast feed in public , YES it is , but the whole restaurant , or kids in the park don't have to see it, these women say , "look the other way" Everybody gets offended by something, and I know it is a natural thing, but have respect for others and just cover up, I had to change my sons diaper in a booth, once at a restaurant, gee guess what no one knew what i was doing. Again Please respect others and just cover up some skin    

The problem is that "discreet" is a subjective term. How could you legislate "decency" when there is no agreement on what it means.  

  

About the diaper...I wouldn't know about that, I practice elimimation communication with my kids so they don't wear diapers. When they have to go to the bathroom I bring them and hold them over the toilet.  

  

So, let's review...breastfeed at the table, pee and poop in the bathroom. 

  

 


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