Quote From: pipersmom2my hub works about that many hours, and i take care of my only child whose 4 months old and i work part time. being a mother is a hard job to do, whether its one child or twenty. the thing is, i work just as many hours as he does, most of them at home and i don't get any help or any graditude for the jobs that i do. i pressure him to help me b/c i work and make money also. it stresses me out when i feel like i'm raising two children. he thinks a good wife is one who cleans, cooks, takes care of the kids and gives him pleasure
every night. i have a
big problem with that b/c i have a lot of issues that make having sex all the time not fun for me. so what do you do when both wear the pants and make the money? but the only thing he does is work.
Tell him what I am telling my husband.
Foreplay and excitment about having sex starts in the morning. I rather have my hubby vacuum the house then buy me flower. That is more exciting to me then presents or flowers or dinners out or whatever the case might be.
Or just quit having sex with him and if he complains about it you tell him he needs to start helping out more at home becasue you cant be a wife and a mother and a provider and a maid and a lover. Sometings gotta go.
Good luck
