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October 13, 2005, 3:28 pm PDT
Thankyou for advise
Quote From: ritehere Imagine that your daughter were in this predicament, or if you don't have a daughter, your best friend, or your mother. What would you say to her?
Now, think about how common-law #3 sounds as your new title?
Remember Dr Phil's truism: past behavior is an indicator of future behavior, AND we teach people how to treat us. Have you asked #1 and #2 how they got into this mess and how they feel about it? Or are you just listening to what romeo is telling you?
Sorry to be so harsh, but I think you know all of this already and are just posting to validate what you feel inside but are unwilling to accept. Am I right? I have spoken to each common-law ex. I know the situation about each of them. I posted here because I do NOT want to be common-law #3. I did want to be wife #1. I have since told him to make up his mind about what he wants. I am moving away from where I live now. I told him to let me know what his intentions were before I leave. If he is really serious about me then he can marry me. I won't settle for less. If he decides marriage is not for him then I will NOT see him anymore. You weren't harsh, either. I knew I HAD to do SOMETHING, but was really torn and confused. Thankyou for posting a reply to me. It really helped.
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