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October 9, 2005, 12:48 pm PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

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I APPRECIATED YOUR LETTER EXPLAINING ABOUT PUMPING.  BECAUSE I COULDN'T NURSE I DIDN'T KNOW ALL OF THE SITUATIONS THAT CAN COME UP.  I WISH MORE PEOPLE WOULD JUST BE MORE PRIVATE ABOUT BREASTFEEDING IN PUBLIC.  SOUNDS LIKE YOU MAKE EVERY ATTEMPT AND THAT IS ADMIRABLE.  THE PAST DAYS HAVE BEEN INTERESTING AND I HAVE EVEN CHANGED MY VIEWS SOMEWHAT.  MY FIRST POST CLAIMED I DIDN'T AGREE WITH NURSING IN PUBLIC BUT I THINK NOW IT WOULD SEEM MORE COMFORTABLE TO ME AFTER READING ABOUT ALL THE THINGS INVOLVED IN THE PROCESS.  KEY FOR ME WOULD BE AT LEAST SEEING THAT A MOM IS TRYING TO BE DISCREET EVEN IF THE ATTEMPT ISN'T SUCCESSFUL SINCE SOME BABIES DON'T LIKE TO BE COVERED.  MY TURNOFF WAS THE B/F MOM ON THE SHOW THAT PRETTY MUCH LEFT THE VIEWERS THINKING SHE DIDN'T GIVE A DARN WHAT ANYONE SAW OR THOUGHT OR FELT.  LIKE WE NEED MORE OF THAT ATTITUDE IN THIS WORLD.  SEVERAL POSTS WERE VERY EDUCATING FOR ME AND I APPRECIATE IT.  ENJOY YOUR CHILDREN!!
I want to thank you for your honesty. It brings tears to my eyes to read that you have been able to grow and shift your opinion. I too can understand the issue about being discreet, but I think that discretion is a subjective term and therefore difficult to come to an agreement on. Also, there are some sad stories here from women here who were "unable' to breastfeed. Breastfeeding is a learned skill, if we don't see it being done it is much, much harder to be succesful at.
 
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October 9, 2005, 12:49 pm PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

Quote From: cathyhod

I APPRECIATED YOUR LETTER EXPLAINING ABOUT PUMPING.  BECAUSE I COULDN'T NURSE I DIDN'T KNOW ALL OF THE SITUATIONS THAT CAN COME UP.  I WISH MORE PEOPLE WOULD JUST BE MORE PRIVATE ABOUT BREASTFEEDING IN PUBLIC.  SOUNDS LIKE YOU MAKE EVERY ATTEMPT AND THAT IS ADMIRABLE.  THE PAST DAYS HAVE BEEN INTERESTING AND I HAVE EVEN CHANGED MY VIEWS SOMEWHAT.  MY FIRST POST CLAIMED I DIDN'T AGREE WITH NURSING IN PUBLIC BUT I THINK NOW IT WOULD SEEM MORE COMFORTABLE TO ME AFTER READING ABOUT ALL THE THINGS INVOLVED IN THE PROCESS.  KEY FOR ME WOULD BE AT LEAST SEEING THAT A MOM IS TRYING TO BE DISCREET EVEN IF THE ATTEMPT ISN'T SUCCESSFUL SINCE SOME BABIES DON'T LIKE TO BE COVERED.  MY TURNOFF WAS THE B/F MOM ON THE SHOW THAT PRETTY MUCH LEFT THE VIEWERS THINKING SHE DIDN'T GIVE A DARN WHAT ANYONE SAW OR THOUGHT OR FELT.  LIKE WE NEED MORE OF THAT ATTITUDE IN THIS WORLD.  SEVERAL POSTS WERE VERY EDUCATING FOR ME AND I APPRECIATE IT.  ENJOY YOUR CHILDREN!!

For me that "I don't care" opinion only came after I was no longer able to keep a cover on my child. In truth I guess it wasn't that I didn't care, but that I couldn't help my situation. I never had any trouble feeding discretely without a cover and my husband would sit with me and said he never saw anything either. I thank you for being so honest. I think alot of the problems people have with breastfeeding has to do with lack of education on the subject and biases passes down from parents or peers. The more people know the better the world will be.  

 
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October 9, 2005, 3:51 pm PDT

I totally agree

Quote From: cathyhod

I APPRECIATED YOUR LETTER EXPLAINING ABOUT PUMPING.  BECAUSE I COULDN'T NURSE I DIDN'T KNOW ALL OF THE SITUATIONS THAT CAN COME UP.  I WISH MORE PEOPLE WOULD JUST BE MORE PRIVATE ABOUT BREASTFEEDING IN PUBLIC.  SOUNDS LIKE YOU MAKE EVERY ATTEMPT AND THAT IS ADMIRABLE.  THE PAST DAYS HAVE BEEN INTERESTING AND I HAVE EVEN CHANGED MY VIEWS SOMEWHAT.  MY FIRST POST CLAIMED I DIDN'T AGREE WITH NURSING IN PUBLIC BUT I THINK NOW IT WOULD SEEM MORE COMFORTABLE TO ME AFTER READING ABOUT ALL THE THINGS INVOLVED IN THE PROCESS.  KEY FOR ME WOULD BE AT LEAST SEEING THAT A MOM IS TRYING TO BE DISCREET EVEN IF THE ATTEMPT ISN'T SUCCESSFUL SINCE SOME BABIES DON'T LIKE TO BE COVERED.  MY TURNOFF WAS THE B/F MOM ON THE SHOW THAT PRETTY MUCH LEFT THE VIEWERS THINKING SHE DIDN'T GIVE A DARN WHAT ANYONE SAW OR THOUGHT OR FELT.  LIKE WE NEED MORE OF THAT ATTITUDE IN THIS WORLD.  SEVERAL POSTS WERE VERY EDUCATING FOR ME AND I APPRECIATE IT.  ENJOY YOUR CHILDREN!!
I did find the b/f mother on the show to be way too intense! I mean to say she was not even willing to try and cover up?! I didn't agree with alot of her comments. I think both ladies were to the extreme of both sides of the issue?
 


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