Quote From: mgrant1211I would like to know how a man can be the leader when he is living with a woman like her on your program. He can't get a handle on the situation. Women can talk about how they feel sorry for her, but she is the one with the problem. She needs help. I know couples in this situation and the woman wants to be in control and there is nothing a man can do with her and he knows he will not get custody of his kids and he has to see her continue her behavior in front of her girls.
Women need to take their place in the home and be in submission like God told them to. I am a widow and my husband and I raised 4 kids. We discussed how things were going to be but he had the final say and it works. It is not politically correct anymore and this is what is wrong with families now.
Men think they have been so loving that their wives have been easy to get along with and it is when the woman takes her place that the man can be loving. A man needs a place to come home to after he has worked all day. He doesn't need a place where there is an upheaval all the time.
You came down on her and you should have been with a woman like her, but I don't know how a man can step up and be the leader when she won't let him.
Gladly in subjection to my husband.
The topic is When to call it Quits.
Christ promised to be with me always, even unto the end of the Earth. I believe this means that he is tougher than we are. He wishes only the best for us, and he does not take our sins and faults, personally. It means that sometimes we fall short of perfection. We can not take a "submissive" place alongside our soon-to-be ex-husbands.
I believe a woman should you should call it quits when she describes her marriage as "serving a sentence of 20 years for a crime she did not commit."
There is no man as fine a martyr as the one who "knows he will not get custody of his kids and he HAS to see her continue her behavior in front of her girls." Do you mean that he has an excuse for tolerating his wife's bad behavior? Failing to become involved is as awful an example as her two hour rages.
