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October 10, 2005, 5:04 am PDT
feeling helpless
Quote From: phills43Thanks for saying I am not the only one with this problem. Sometimes I don't have family members to talk to they are so wrapped up in there own little world they forget I am there. My husband said he drinks because of my mood swings. We did try thearapy before and it just didn't work. So right now I am giving up on this situation but it feels great to vent it out on this message board. I hope for your sister's sake they will seek the right counseling and I hope there marriage will last. I don't know what it's like to lose parents and sorry for your loss. ButI do know what it's like to lose a grandma who is like a mother to me. She helped me out when I almost went to prision writing hot checks as most bipolar do anyway.
Well take care!
Phyllis Boy do i feel helpless! Yesterday i visited my sister in the hospital whom has been there for 2 weeks now, and i see no change. She was very mean and angry and moody, it seems that the meds they have her on are not working(2nd type of meds so far). The biggest problem is she will not admit that she has a problem and especially that she does not have bipolar syndrome like the doctors have told her, everything is everyone else's fault! She dwells on the past and won't come into the future and try a new start. Her husband has agreed to quit drinking for her but she won't give him a chance to prove himself to her. They have been married for 25 years, and he wants her to get help but he cannot live his life this way either. I pray that the docters can find an even keel type med for her and then even who knows if this will bring her back into a life that is managable. Forms of mental disorders certainaly run in our family . Its so strange that i never was more aware of it until it hit me in the face so hard!!! God bless all of you who deal with this everyday, You have to be brave for taking one day at a time! try to have a great day!!! patty P.S Hi tammy, haven't seen your messages lately..hope things are going well for u and your daughter!
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