I personally love ,love-making instead of sex.
There is in my opinion, a large difference between sex and love making.
One can only make love when they are equally in love with each other.
Besides most people aren't even aware of the difference between the two styles of contact.
Sex is to me no different than what the dogs do out in the fields for us all to view, quite openly...
Nothing special, just another box to release into..."who was that mask man" kind of thing.
Love making is the totality of God's Creational purpose for intimacy...
The blending of each other's energies into a unified explosion that builds each other's energies, rather than detracts and separates it into a feeding singularly each others energies only.
What am I talking about?
I am a talking about Tantric Love Making...
I believe that those that don't know that this form of love making that God had in mind for us all when He gifted us with love making as a form of release of stress, and a strengthening of our bonding energies...
Something like, I share my energy with you as I welcome your energy into my being as well, at the same time...at the moment of orgasmic release.
I have only experienced this form of blending once in my life.
It wasn't a full blending, for the guy that I had been romantically involved with over 8 years, wanting me to shut up perhaps, said that he was a following my lead and lied.
So how did I end up after this tantric experience of mine? I ended up loving him more than less, and accepting his selfish ways for years more to come.
So if one is in a bad relationship that doesn't feed mutually each other. Please don't attempt this form of union, for it will end such as my case....me a hanging in there a lot longer than what was necessary.
I do plan on attempting this format of Divine closeness, yet not with just anyone. When Mr. Right happens along...and he is open enough to experiment with what I believe was God's purpose and plan for intimacy.
I also believe that until couples understand what true intimacy is, the need to find yourself in other persons arms other than your spouse or mate, will never end...
The discovering of the God contained within your spouse and mate, puts down the need to find excitement in the arms of others...
Tantric Sex
The God in me and the God in you, a meeting and a pushed through our chakra system= renewal, regeneration...
Also please remember, if your spouse or mate have a drinking problem...the sharing of the same energy space, might make you want to start a drinking...so be careful...hahahehe...
That is what I believe is meant by the expression...during the marital vows of a becoming one.
Now about the son being allowed into the discussion of dad wanting a three some and mom a not....
Oh please! Are you not aware that fathers role model how to be in the world to their sons, and daughters learn what to accept from the males in their future lives...as they eventually, (even if they don't like all that daddy is about while growing up) grow up and choose men that resemble daddy.
Hmmm...taking all that in.
So son grows up and gets married and marries a woman that is into the swinging life and then boom, bang, pattern repeats itself...you have grandchildren that you believe are your own...yet don't know for sure without DNA testing...and they copy the same patterns of their parents, and grandparents...and so forth and so on...
Could this possibly explain the Biblical passage, "the sins of the parents will fall down upon the children for six generations."
Sins are to me. choices that we make...that take our children (gifts from God) down the wrong passageway of life that in turns influences the lives of all that spring forth from our children for six generations.
Just my thoughts,
Remember I am a Ordained Spiritual Minister, so even though I can allow all others to do and be in the world as they seem fit to do...I still for the benefit of those that know and love me, have to give them my best foot forward in the way of advice and thinking processes. What everyone does with the information I present is totally up to the one wanting, needing, or reading the thought impressions.
For it is a world of, "different strokes, for different folks...
That is why you will see me write, "please take what you need and do please leave the rest."
Love, Light and Peace
We Are All Blessed
Tonie
