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January 19, 2008, 12:21 pm PST

01/21 Real Life Gossip Girls

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To the parents who are in danger of losing their homes: If you would have controlled your nasty daughters in the first place you wouldn't be in this mess.  I wouldn't be surprised if these parents were the "girls will be girls" type.  As long as it wasn't THEIR daughters getting picked  on, it was okay, right Mom and Dad??  Did you ever monitor your daughters' behavior, or did you hand them cell phones, and computers and let them run free with them  to do whatever pleased their little hearts?  Were you great "pals" with your daughters exercising no discipline and giving no guidelines on how to be decent human beings so you could look cool to them?  Did you ever use the word "no" to them? Well it looks like their failure to raise decent human beings came back to bite them in the end and in a very expensive way.
Finally there is another person who shares my views! This reply is "right on" - if parents knew what their children were doing things like this probably wouldn't happen. And, why do pre-teens and teens need cell phones, especially in school? I'm sorry but that is NOT the place for them. I've heard people say computers, cell phones, the internet, etc...has created a lot of our societal problems today. Just look at the stuff you can view on the internet! Not only view, but there are sites that let you build a web site for free and here you can post anything! MySpace, YouTube, and others, these sites allow anything to be posted, true or not! I won't judge all teens by the ones who are up to no good and even up to criminal-level activity. There are many good teens in the world who do good things! Bless Them! It's the bad ones that we hear about, have always heard about and probably always heard about! What scares me the most is, these kids are the future, and what kind of an adult will they be!
 
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January 19, 2008, 12:29 pm PST

01/21 Real Life Gossip Girls

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To the parents who are in danger of losing their homes: If you would have controlled your nasty daughters in the first place you wouldn't be in this mess.  I wouldn't be surprised if these parents were the "girls will be girls" type.  As long as it wasn't THEIR daughters getting picked  on, it was okay, right Mom and Dad??  Did you ever monitor your daughters' behavior, or did you hand them cell phones, and computers and let them run free with them  to do whatever pleased their little hearts?  Were you great "pals" with your daughters exercising no discipline and giving no guidelines on how to be decent human beings so you could look cool to them?  Did you ever use the word "no" to them? Well it looks like their failure to raise decent human beings came back to bite them in the end and in a very expensive way.
I agree -  I hope my message gets posted --
 
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January 21, 2008, 10:31 am PST

01/21 Real Life Gossip Girls

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To the parents who are in danger of losing their homes: If you would have controlled your nasty daughters in the first place you wouldn't be in this mess.  I wouldn't be surprised if these parents were the "girls will be girls" type.  As long as it wasn't THEIR daughters getting picked  on, it was okay, right Mom and Dad??  Did you ever monitor your daughters' behavior, or did you hand them cell phones, and computers and let them run free with them  to do whatever pleased their little hearts?  Were you great "pals" with your daughters exercising no discipline and giving no guidelines on how to be decent human beings so you could look cool to them?  Did you ever use the word "no" to them? Well it looks like their failure to raise decent human beings came back to bite them in the end and in a very expensive way.

So true, so true!!

 

I have said these things for years!! You are  NOT your children's FRIEND!! You are the only thing between them and disaster on so many levels. Kids have friends....they need PARENTS!!

 

Check out my site: NONONSENSEGRAMMYTREE.BLOGSPOT.COM to find many postings regarding parenting and grandparenting, in-laws (and outlaws) :)   
 
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January 21, 2008, 8:26 pm PST

3 mortgages isn't expensive?????????

Quote From: juliebgg

To the parents who are in danger of losing their homes: If you would have controlled your nasty daughters in the first place you wouldn't be in this mess.  I wouldn't be surprised if these parents were the "girls will be girls" type.  As long as it wasn't THEIR daughters getting picked  on, it was okay, right Mom and Dad??  Did you ever monitor your daughters' behavior, or did you hand them cell phones, and computers and let them run free with them  to do whatever pleased their little hearts?  Were you great "pals" with your daughters exercising no discipline and giving no guidelines on how to be decent human beings so you could look cool to them?  Did you ever use the word "no" to them? Well it looks like their failure to raise decent human beings came back to bite them in the end and in a very expensive way.

I, and my children, (and I'm sure many of you reading this) have been victims. I'm furious enough to spit nails, but i WILL NOT be a victim all my life. i have been sexually molested and verbally abused and I AM the WINNER in life. What will suing get me? It won't make me "feel" better about what happened. But I guess can say "Nyah nyah I won! Woo-hoo", how mature. Those girls got their punishment and served it. Now someone wants to make a buck. Poor mommy (not the victim child) needs to grow up and get a life. My girls have been victims of nasty girls, but MY KIDS are strong and have learned some great lessons about life. 

I'm sure the original author and clones of this mindset were never young and of course never did anything stupid. People DO learn from their mistakes-look at the "beauty queens" whose pictures have shown up! Notice-I answer to God, and that's what we all need to keep in mind.
 
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January 22, 2008, 12:00 am PST

looseing a home is not the danger

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To the parents who are in danger of losing their homes: If you would have controlled your nasty daughters in the first place you wouldn't be in this mess.  I wouldn't be surprised if these parents were the "girls will be girls" type.  As long as it wasn't THEIR daughters getting picked  on, it was okay, right Mom and Dad??  Did you ever monitor your daughters' behavior, or did you hand them cell phones, and computers and let them run free with them  to do whatever pleased their little hearts?  Were you great "pals" with your daughters exercising no discipline and giving no guidelines on how to be decent human beings so you could look cool to them?  Did you ever use the word "no" to them? Well it looks like their failure to raise decent human beings came back to bite them in the end and in a very expensive way.
 the  parents  in  danger  of  looseing  their  home  dear  is  in  far  less  danger  than those  parents  who  have  continued  to  bring  further charges  .

How  so  you  may  ask ?

here  is  how  so

the  parable  of  the  servants
the  verdict  given  by  the  king  of  all  kings
Jesus  the  Christ  himself

thats  how  so

so  I  beg  to  differ  in  opinion  on  where  the  ignorance  is  here 

It  is  clear that  in  fact  it  is  only those  who  have  never  understood
how  deeply they  themself  have  hurt  God
and  those  who  have  never  come  come  to  terms
with  the  greatness  of  his  mercy
toward  them 
who feel  they  have  an  excuse
to  hold  a grudge
or  to  harbor  relentless  unforgiveness  of  anothers  debt
they  feel  the  one  owes .
woe  be  to  them !! 
they  will  be  charged  accordingly
and  rightly !!  I  may  add !!
you  see
they  will  not  be  forgiven
why?
because  they  chose  not  to  forgive
others  their  trespass
they  shall likewise
be  charged  with  their  own
 so  in  truth
it  is  not  the  parents  in  danger of  loosing  their home  or  their  girls who  committed  a  grievious sin  against  the  others  that  need  fear  !! 
It  is  more  so  the parents  and  their   victimized children
that  will  be  the  lesser in  all  ways 
they  have  taught  unforgiveness
they  can  not  themselves  be  forgiven
they  may  never  pay  the  world
but  they  will  pay  the  king
how  sad  a  choice

and  the  moral  is
forgive  and  you  will  be  forgiven
sad  most  are  so  ignorant  they  dont  know  that principle
 
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January 22, 2008, 7:28 am PST

01/21 Real Life Gossip Girls

Quote From: juliebgg

To the parents who are in danger of losing their homes: If you would have controlled your nasty daughters in the first place you wouldn't be in this mess.  I wouldn't be surprised if these parents were the "girls will be girls" type.  As long as it wasn't THEIR daughters getting picked  on, it was okay, right Mom and Dad??  Did you ever monitor your daughters' behavior, or did you hand them cell phones, and computers and let them run free with them  to do whatever pleased their little hearts?  Were you great "pals" with your daughters exercising no discipline and giving no guidelines on how to be decent human beings so you could look cool to them?  Did you ever use the word "no" to them? Well it looks like their failure to raise decent human beings came back to bite them in the end and in a very expensive way.

You have got to be kidding me....parents cannot watch their teenagers 24 hrs a day!!! Do you have teens?

If you don't you better be careful before you judge!!! Lots of teens have discipline and guidelines and they

still don't follow.... You make me sick being so judgemental!!! They were very wrong but things happen beyond the parents control some time!!!

 
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