|
January 20, 2008, 12:55 am PST
What you didn't say speaks volumes
Quote From: cfnamierI always love it when swinging comes up as a topic.
My wife of 33 years and I have been together since 1968, we work together owning two small businesses, we do lots of volunteer work, and on Saturday nights we go out for our date night.
We go to our local swingers bar to dance with each other and other couples we know, we have sexy fun, we flirt, we laugh, we have a ball. About one time every two months we have such a great time with another couple we go to either our house or theirs and play sexy games, strip poker, naked twister or the like.
We have sex, it is just an extension of the fun we have.
Before i get blasted for being controlling in any way, I certainly do not force her to do anything. She likes to dress sexy and she loves to flirt, I don't have any problem with her doing so. She was beautiful and sexy when we started dating and she is beautiful and sexy today. You talk about how you own 2 businesses. You talk about how you like to go out and dance and play "sexy games" with other couples. You even talk about how beautiful your wife is. The only thing you did not mention is if you LOVE your wife. I feel so sad for your wife, spending over 30 years married to a man who not only doesn't love her but has no respect for himself or her, but I feel even sadder for your wife that she thinks so little of herself that she has decided this is acceptable behavior.
|
