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I have been in the same situation. I felt if i didnt go through with what my husband wanted i would loose him. It started when a freind came over one day and i was coerced into having sex with both men. My self asteem died that day. We began going to a nudist colony that did bother me at first but when i found out the rules were strict i felt this was safer than the alternative. This is where we met this man who i mentioned ealrlier.

After a short time of " swinging" i decided i couldnt live this way any more. I was brought up in a very religious home and he could never seem to get enough sex. WE got divorced and it wasnt untill years later that i came to the realazaton that he was a sex addict and nothing i would have done could have saved our marriage. Now our grown children know of his current meetings with other couples in hotels in the town where he lives, so do his siblings. Now they know why i left him. WE were a high profile couple in this town and i am ashamed to show my face in my own home town. My oldest son lives there and i do go visit him on occassion but leave and come strait back home when i do. The kid is only 27 and has a tereible time getting a job, he is a Jr. and people look at him funny. he has to live down his fathers short comings. He has 2 children he is raising also. I am disabled and cant help him financially.  Tell her if he is bound and determined to have sex with dozens of women to let him go.. he isnt worth it!