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Thank you for your response.  And you have a very valid point in regard to the comparison.  I was thinking, but failed to type, that there are very very few relationships or marriages that atleast one of the parties has not had an affair atleast once.  I think all long term relationships and marriages tend to hit slumps and often times this goes unchecked until the disaster of an affair occurs.  The are alot of occasions to where the innocent person in the relationship becomes sick as a result.  I have worked in the medical field for a long time and have seen this happen time and time again.  Most the time when people are having affairs they don't take the time to talk about STDs or birthcontrol, etc.  and innocent people get hurt.  With what we do, there is a great deal of honesty and a great deal of frankness.   That translates into safety.  I just don't understand why there is such a stigma attached to this other than society says it is taboo.  I have actually had people tell me that having an affair is better than this and honestly, I totally disagree.  Just my opinion.