Quote From: princess1You talk about how you own 2 businesses. You talk about how you like to go out and dance and play "sexy games" with other couples. You even talk about how beautiful your wife is. The only thing you did not mention is if you LOVE your wife. I feel so sad for your wife, spending over 30 years married to a man who not only doesn't love her but has no respect for himself or her, but I feel even sadder for your wife that she thinks so little of herself that she has decided this is acceptable behavior.
Oh please don't feel sad for us. My wife loves me and I love her, I bring her flowers about 3 times a month, take her out to eat often, buy her "Youth Dew" perfume for almost any holiday (I know what fragrance she wears, and her dress size is currently a 10). We work crossword puzzles together and laugh a lot.
When we married we pledged to share our lives with each other. We have shared all the ups and downs of life for 40 years and great sex is part of the sharing. Great sex with each other and good sex with very close friends.
Swinging is not for most couples because they are not deeply in love, we are. I know there is no other woman out there for me, if she wanted to stop swinging today I would say O.K. and it would stop cold, and if I wanted to stop she would say O.K. We do it because it is fun for us. We have great self esteem, self worth and any of the other catch phrases you can think of.
So we are O.K. and we are good people, we just have sexy fun.