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January 20, 2008, 3:03 pm PST
You shouldn't have been
Quote From: valbvrs My first husband talked me into swinging. I was 19 and thought " If I really love him I'll do this for him." No if he really loved me he wouldn't force me into this. I did it several times for him and was miserable. That marriage lasted 5 trs. This marriage, where my hus band respects me, has lasted 20 yrs. My husband would never ask mde to do anything I didn't want to do. forced into doing something you didn't want to do. My husband would never expect that of me and I wouldn't do that for him. If my husband requested that of me, that's not consensual and not to be equated with swinging.
Swinging is about mutual respect. About love between spouses. It's not orgies that you've read about, it's not about dressing in bad clothing. There are so many misconceptions that people have read and heard about and if was whispered or read, it must be true, huh?
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