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January 20, 2008, 4:02 pm PST

01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

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We have lost sight of why we even get married any longer. We marry because we love the person and want to share our life with them. You take a vow before God and your spouse to stay together until death do you part.
We did get married because we loved one another. Through the years, that love has grown so deeply that a person who doesn't experience it wouldn't understand it. I will share the rest of my life with him. We did vow before God and my spouse to stay with them till death do us part. That part will never change. Ever.

If you are bored in bed and sex can get boring after a few years, go to a counselor, get some new Ideas, buy a book for Gods sake. You don't invite other people into your bed. It is plan an simple cheating and cheating is lying. Couples who swing and invite a third party into their bed are asking for divorce down the road. What is the difference between swinging and going out and having an affair.
This is where people get lost... We were never bored with our sex life. I don't think we've ever been bored with our sex life and we've been married a quarter of a century. It's not cheating. This is another part where people get a little lost. Cheating is a lie, but cheating is where you're sneaking behind the back of your spouse without their knowledge and having sex without their knowledge. The difference between swinging and going out and having an affair is that we both go as a couple. He knows everything I do and I know everything he does. This has brought a whole new realm of communication to our relationship. I know that there are a plethora of you out there that can't understand this. You don't want to understand. Your agenda is to bash those of us who live differently than you. We used to live like you... Glad we don't anymore.

I am having a real hard time understanding why people are thinking that this has anything to do with kids. For those who choose a "normal" marriage and think that, I pose a question, do you tell your children everything you do in the bedroom? Do you give them intimate details of your sex life? Do you tell them that you preform oral sex on eachother or mommy prefers anal sex to vaginal? Get real people, neither do we! I don't know where Dr. Phil found this couple that the husband drug his teenage son into the middle of this but that is not the norm. And it is flat out sick! It sounds like this show is more about a dysfunctional family as opposed to true swinging and the lifestyle! No we are not pediphiles, no we do not practice beastiality, and no we are not some side show carnival freaks! We don't wear shirts that advertise for our next conquest. Some of you people that this this way really should go on a swinging website like swappernet and type in your own zip code. You might be surprised who you see on there!

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