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January 22, 2008, 11:23 am PST

REAL LIFE GOSSIP

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I am older and in medical school with a bunch of kids very similar to those in the show. If you're different in any way people, not just teens (the teens have to become adults but they don't have to change) draw you out & make fun of you. The school psychologist teaches Psychiatry & Ethics and it surprised me to discover that she is vehement that environment does not play a role in psychological disorders. It is this kind of thinking that allows people to continue "picking" on people and then blaming them for their disorders. So the people being picked on are to blame for their disorders not because environment initiated the "on" gene, but because they reacted to being  bullied and that's their fault. Wow!

I wonder why we don't look at people who do the bullying as the people with the real psychological illness instead of always blaming those "sensitive" psychologically ill people for the problems? Could be something to talk about Dr. Phil since bullies never take responsibility - they were just "clowning around" - having fun!  We're all supposed to just lighten up. I wonder if that's how Britney's kids will feel when they get older. Hmm, Maybe mom should have just lightened up! Not!!!! Maybe people should learn to have some humanity left in them, some empathy and compassion for others.


Good luck with the show.

Your last line is of great importance to me.  The question:  How can this be best accomplished?  To teach people to have greater empathy and compassion for others requires starting very early in a child's life, I think.  In fact, it is so important for these qualities to be instilled in children that I would think ethics lessons would be taught in the public schools.  Some sort of sensitivity training in the school curriculum beginning in the primary grades and continuing through high school, perhaps.  Why can't this be implemented?  There would be much less bullying types of behavior that are so prevalent in public schools now if schools would all implement a zero tolerance for gossip and all forms of harrassment.  and show their sincerity by offering sensitivity training. 

 

Hope this gets printed.

 
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January 22, 2008, 4:22 pm PST

01/21 Real Life Gossip Girls

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I am older and in medical school with a bunch of kids very similar to those in the show. If you're different in any way people, not just teens (the teens have to become adults but they don't have to change) draw you out & make fun of you. The school psychologist teaches Psychiatry & Ethics and it surprised me to discover that she is vehement that environment does not play a role in psychological disorders. It is this kind of thinking that allows people to continue "picking" on people and then blaming them for their disorders. So the people being picked on are to blame for their disorders not because environment initiated the "on" gene, but because they reacted to being  bullied and that's their fault. Wow!

I wonder why we don't look at people who do the bullying as the people with the real psychological illness instead of always blaming those "sensitive" psychologically ill people for the problems? Could be something to talk about Dr. Phil since bullies never take responsibility - they were just "clowning around" - having fun!  We're all supposed to just lighten up. I wonder if that's how Britney's kids will feel when they get older. Hmm, Maybe mom should have just lightened up! Not!!!! Maybe people should learn to have some humanity left in them, some empathy and compassion for others.


Good luck with the show.

Amen. I've been saying this for years. I mean, it's truly the bullies who show a sociopathic personality issue. It never made sense to me to blame the victims, and the let the "innocent" little sociopaths go on ahead to ruin someone else's self-esteem.
 


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