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January 21, 2008, 7:21 pm PST
 Quote From: bearcourage I am having a real hard time understanding why people are thinking that this has anything to do with kids. For those who choose a "normal" marriage and think that, I pose a question, do you tell your children everything you do in the bedroom? Do you give them intimate details of your sex life? Do you tell them that you preform oral sex on eachother or mommy prefers anal sex to vaginal? Get real people, neither do we! I don't know where Dr. Phil found this couple that the husband drug his teenage son into the middle of this but that is not the norm. And it is flat out sick! It sounds like this show is more about a dysfunctional family as opposed to true swinging and the lifestyle! No we are not pediphiles, no we do not practice beastiality, and no we are not some side show carnival freaks! We don't wear shirts that advertise for our next conquest. Some of you people that this this way really should go on a swinging website like swappernet and type in your own zip code. You might be surprised who you see on there! I'm going to play Devils Advocate here, but I think what people are saying (could be wrong ), is there does come a time when the kids will FIND OUT, then how do you explain it, not the intimate details. I agree with you,a kid should NEVER be DRAGGED into these conversations, agreed this is more about dysfunction then the swingers lifestyle I think. Many of the people here would probably be SHOCKED right out of the pulpit if they KNEW just who was doing it, its not like people go around pushing it on others (though some will, but that can be said about any group of people who are convinced they are right), most times you wouldn't KNOW, and you know what, NO ONE has the RIGHT to poke their noses into the nation's bedrooms. As far as being pedophiles or being into beastiality etc. anyone who says that, probably thinks the same about any group (homosexuals would be an example) that dosen't share their sense of "Morality" or "Normalcy", as for being "Freaks", Swingers are our Teachers, Doctors, lawyers, Houswives and dare I say Ministers, they don't have it tattooed to their foreheads, and from what I've seen, they seek out like minded couples. It's NOT for me, but that dosent give me the RIGHT to condemn someone for it, but I DO THINK that BOTH partners have to be "ON BOARD" with the idea, if not the marriage will not survive, we aren't talking about leaving the toilet seat up, this is a lifestyle that should NEVER be FORCED onto someone, and if it's something you are uncomfortable with or it disgusts you, then you should not allow yourself to be coerced or THREATENED into it
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