Replies to '01/21 Real Life Gossip Girls'

tell me that your very angry reply to me is not judgemental? 

First of all, I had many people on here agree with my original message.  Far more agreed than didn't. Of those who didn't, no one was nasty like you. It's a shame that if someone disagrees with you that you say that they  make you sick.

No wonder you don't want people to "judge"!! I find that it is usually not the well-behaved upstanding people that yell "don't judge", but rather it is the people who want a free pass for poor behavior. If your way of responding to me is your usual way of acting then I can see why you don't want people to judge.

 

Abd by the way the parents who do their jobs as parents for the most part raise good kids.  You give your children guidlines so that when they are not with you they make good decisions.  You monitor what they do.  And you put a quick STOP to poor behavior.People like those fathers that let their daughters' behavior go and call them brave rather than discipline them will likely see more trouble bown the road.  And to answer your question, my kids are past their teens and have not been in trouble...thanks to this "judgemental" person who raised them with good values.

I happen to know the girl that started the whole thing because of the boyfriend. She is an honor student 4.0.  Homecoming court and an all around good girl. She did something so stupid and she knows that. I think enough is enough. I can't judge her parents for not being there to help her at her when she needed someone. We can't be with our teenagers all of the time. Thank you so much for saying what you said. People should not judge. Who feels that the girls should now pay the family of the victim for what they said? I personally do not understand it.