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January 23, 2008, 1:49 pm PST
Don't matter
Quote From: shadesofblue1I have been on the side lines for a long time because anxiety and what ever else had me worry alot. Well i'm ready to begin but i'm afraid about people disrespecting the girls i am with because they disrespect me. I deal with alot of harrasement because of being a virgin and the only reason that is an obstacle is because of peoples hurtful words.My counselor says i need to give myself more credit and not worry about what people think. How can i stop caring what people think? and i want to meet nice girls who respect me but should i tell them i am a virgin or does that matter? The thing is it's your life, and should be happy where your at. If I was you I would just enjoy the relationship, and not worry about being a virgin. In todays world thats a big thing I feel you need to be proud about, and just not worry about what people say. When they say things about it or you it is there feelings, and thats where it should be. Your doing what you feel is your life, and live it how your wanting to. I have never let others opinions get mixed up with mine. It's my life, and I can incorparate in mine or not. Just me yourself, and wait tell the time is right to say those things. There is nothing wrong with you for being a virgin ok. Hope this helps out. Robert
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