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January 27, 2008, 3:30 pm PST
Not a good thing
Quote From: rubicon05At first I thought this was funny. I was going to ask if you hide under your bed when you hear the door bell . As I read I realized that you are serious. You posting is like one big collection of all the misinformation available about swinging! Thanks for the laugh! I have to agree with "good greif". My EX-Husband convinced my to try swinging. He thought that after 8 years of marriage that we were secure enough to handle this. Well, it was great! In fact, I thought I would be married to this man for the rest of my life because marriage was a commitment and I would never take a chance to do anything wrong to break my vows. However, he chose to not only break his vows, but have me break mine as well. I felt that we had nothing sacred with each other, and started with chat rooms. I was going to the gym to work out and going to dance clubs and meeting men and not thinking anything of it, because we did that together! Finally I met a man who opened my eyes to seeing that if he really loved me, I mean REALLY loved me, he would NEVER have had me share my body with another man! When my eyes were opened up to what was happening in our lives, I moved out and divorced him. I am now VERY HAPPILY married to a wonderful man who loves me and would NEVER ask me to do anything that is sacred to him and I. That - is LOVE, sharing yourselves with others is just selfishness! Go see a movie if you're that bored!
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