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January 24, 2008, 3:58 pm PST

01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

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My husband talked me into swinging, it took him a year to make me agree.  I thought it was fun the first year but trying to have him stop now and he won't.  I have felt used and pimped out for the past two years now.  Our marriage was strong before swinging now we fight all the time about it.
I am sincerely sorry for you. He should never have 'talked you into anything' that you didn't really want to do.I am curios though, is he a very controlling person in other ways? If swinging were not a factor would the relationship be all that you want it to be? I do think that you should stop this right now. I wouldn't do it even one more time! You cannot control what he does...you don't have to do this just because he wants you to. It is your life and you have to be true to you.
 
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January 24, 2008, 7:59 pm PST

01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

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My husband talked me into swinging, it took him a year to make me agree.  I thought it was fun the first year but trying to have him stop now and he won't.  I have felt used and pimped out for the past two years now.  Our marriage was strong before swinging now we fight all the time about it.
I'm curious as to what changed after the first year. 
 
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January 25, 2008, 9:24 am PST

01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

Quote From: trueroot

My husband talked me into swinging, it took him a year to make me agree.  I thought it was fun the first year but trying to have him stop now and he won't.  I have felt used and pimped out for the past two years now.  Our marriage was strong before swinging now we fight all the time about it.

Come on! You aren't confused, and you weren't "talked into" anything! Grow a spine...if you don't want to do this...DON'T!!

 

And, by the way, your marriage was NOT strong before you started this crap or neither of you would have considered it! You can delude yourself all you want, but you know better.

 

It's a disgusting, perverted lifestyle and just because someone SAYS it's okay doesn't make it so. 

 


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