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January 24, 2008, 10:59 pm PST

Maria's a good friend you say?

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I disagree greatly with that. Although I think you are right the biological father should be found and should be the one responsible to pay the child support, Selina's mother did in no way reuin Selina's relationship with her dad. He is the one who chose to not see her. He still came and picked up Selian's sister but left Selina. In no way did her mother ruin the relationship. Her father started dating someone who decided by herself that Selina couldn't be the father and decided to have him take a DNA test. Although he may not be the biological father I feel after 10 years of their great relationship he was a complete and total jerk to just throw her asside like that.

 

I know Selina well, and I knew her before she was ten as well as after. I remember how much she cared for and admired her father. I know how hard this was on her, being another thing I agree with above is that no one understands the devistation this leaves on her. She grew up awfully fast when this happend, but she still had trouble realizing it wasn't her fault. Also as well as knowing Selina I knew her mother, which makes it harder to read the awful things people are writing about her, because she is a great person who made a mistake, but still wants the best for her daughters.

 

Sorry, just my little two sence. I couldn't read all these comments without responding.

Maria just made a mistake?  Maria's forcing Enrique to pay money every month for a child that's not his, against his will!!!  She lived with the bio dad for a couple of years, while receiving free childcare from his parents and money from Enrique.  Lied to her own daughter about health history.  If she’ll lie about something so important as Selina’s health history to the doctor, she’ll lie about anything.  And she's a good person?  Are you kidding me? Did you not hear Maria say Enrique is NOT a victim in this situation?  If he's not a victim?  What then? Maria just made a mistake?  Let me say it again, Maria's forcing Enrique to pay money every month for a child that's not his.

Enrique wants to have a relationship with Selina!!!  What part of that did you not get? Why does he have to be under court order?  Maybe if Maria stopped suing Enrique in court for more money, he might have a better response to Selina.  Maybe instead of filing for bankruptcy, Maria should stop stealing money from other people and live within her means……just an idea!

Oh and FYI, usually when someone makes a mistake they say sorry and do what they can to fix it.  When Maria pays for her own child maybe then we let her off the hook a bit, but for now she’s just another criminal hiding behind a child.  Maria is extremely pathetic, my dear!

With friends like Maria you don’t need any enemies!!!  I feel sorry for you!!!

 
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January 25, 2008, 6:30 am PST

Well then.....

Quote From: ashleyy115093

I disagree greatly with that. Although I think you are right the biological father should be found and should be the one responsible to pay the child support, Selina's mother did in no way reuin Selina's relationship with her dad. He is the one who chose to not see her. He still came and picked up Selian's sister but left Selina. In no way did her mother ruin the relationship. Her father started dating someone who decided by herself that Selina couldn't be the father and decided to have him take a DNA test. Although he may not be the biological father I feel after 10 years of their great relationship he was a complete and total jerk to just throw her asside like that.

 

I know Selina well, and I knew her before she was ten as well as after. I remember how much she cared for and admired her father. I know how hard this was on her, being another thing I agree with above is that no one understands the devistation this leaves on her. She grew up awfully fast when this happend, but she still had trouble realizing it wasn't her fault. Also as well as knowing Selina I knew her mother, which makes it harder to read the awful things people are writing about her, because she is a great person who made a mistake, but still wants the best for her daughters.

 

Sorry, just my little two sence. I couldn't read all these comments without responding.

Her mother shouldn't have demanded that Enrique continue to pay FULL child support to her with no visitation!!

 

I'm sorry but your friend Maria is a hot mess and, frankly, that says a lot about you too.  Just so you know.

 
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January 25, 2008, 8:46 am PST

Maria is the cause of this......

Quote From: ashleyy115093

I disagree greatly with that. Although I think you are right the biological father should be found and should be the one responsible to pay the child support, Selina's mother did in no way reuin Selina's relationship with her dad. He is the one who chose to not see her. He still came and picked up Selian's sister but left Selina. In no way did her mother ruin the relationship. Her father started dating someone who decided by herself that Selina couldn't be the father and decided to have him take a DNA test. Although he may not be the biological father I feel after 10 years of their great relationship he was a complete and total jerk to just throw her asside like that.

 

I know Selina well, and I knew her before she was ten as well as after. I remember how much she cared for and admired her father. I know how hard this was on her, being another thing I agree with above is that no one understands the devistation this leaves on her. She grew up awfully fast when this happend, but she still had trouble realizing it wasn't her fault. Also as well as knowing Selina I knew her mother, which makes it harder to read the awful things people are writing about her, because she is a great person who made a mistake, but still wants the best for her daughters.

 

Sorry, just my little two sence. I couldn't read all these comments without responding.

Selina grew up really fast when her mother lied!!! Maria is thief and lier!!! Nothing more than that. Don't try to make it ok because she's using the child to collect a pay check. Paternity Fraud is a huge issue in this country and our children pay the price. As far as I'm concerned I have no respect for someone who would stick up for a lier and cheat like Maria who puts the child in the middle! She's the ONLY one responsible for this entire mess. It's an injustice to women who actually want to be honest and productive....LOOK UP THE PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECTS OF LIEING TO CHILDREN. Also, what happens in a health emergency and no one knows Selina's history. What happens when Selina has children of her own? They continue on the lies of Maria. I, like the majority of people think Maria should be in JAIL! Maria needs help badly!!! Anyone one could do something this low to a child and lie for years and years - all the while laughing all the way to the bank at the expense of a child is sick in my book!!!
 


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