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Quote From: cherrygrrrl

My husband and I have been part of the lifestyle for 3 years. It is most definately not for everyone. We are open with our close friends about it, but we don't tell our family. Just as you wouldn't want your family knowing how much you like being spanked during sex, I don't need my family to know I like to have sex with other couples. We have two beautiful children who are also not aware about our sex life. Would you share with your kids about your sex life? We belong to a swingers club. Life is busy and we only swing once every 6 months or so. Jealousy can be a big problem for people in any type of relationship, but especially these. We haven't had that problem what so ever. We are both very confident in our love and we enjoy seeing each other have a good time. This works for us, because it's what we both want. Anyone trying to do this simply to please their partner is only going to damage their relationship in the long run. It's not for everyone, but it's loads of fun for us! We definately are not your average couple, but we are madly in love and that's what's important. :)