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October 10, 2005, 8:31 am PDT
10/10 Wifestyles
Quote From: lanieceIt's quite interesting to me that we are still talking about the woman's role in the home. That is such an old fashioned way of life now. I am married, have three growing boys, a full career and am an active member in the community. My husband has his job and a talented career on the side. Running this household takes both of us. He gets home from work first, he gets the homework started and dinner started. I get home and jump right in to help finish the dinner. I can help finish homework while he starts bathing the littler ones. I start laundry, he takes out the garbage. He does the dishes, I read books with the kids. He takes the kids outside to play while I tidy up, then we both get the kids to bed. That's a sample. Why does society still harp that it's only the woman's roll to do ALL of this? It's odd in this day of both spouses working this only one is getting hounded about getting everything done. Lets get with the times folks. Why does a wife's role at home have to be "old-fashioned"? If a wife/mom staying at home works best for a family, why should there be a stigma attached to that? I'm a stay-at-home wife. We don't have any kids, but we might someday. I recently exited the workforce when my husband took a new job that paid a little more. I take care of the house during the day. I also have time to volunteer time at a local school. When he gets home, we have dinner together and the whole evening to spend together, or doing whatever we want. We also have weekends free to spend with each other, working on hobbies, traveling, etc. because we have FREE TIME!!! That's something we never had when we were both working. Yes, it's great if you can earn some extra money by having 2 incomes. And it's a "modern" idea for women to go to college, have a career and also be a mom. But what has been sacrificed just so we can hear women roar? The more women want to roar about what they have accomplished, the more they leave their husband's and families in the dust. Why can't a wmoan roar at home and show off her achievements with a beautiful home and great family life? These are great accomplishments, and they serve the needs of the whole family, not just the woman's needs. Calling this role old-fashioned is a discredit to the women who choose to fulfill it.
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